Pregnancy Party Etiquette: How to Say “No” Gracefully and Still Have a Glass in Hand

Posted by Team @Wines for Mothers on Nov 3rd 2025

Pregnancy Party Etiquette: How to Say “No” Gracefully and Still Have a Glass in Hand

Pregnancy Party Etiquette: How to Say “No” Gracefully and Still Have a Glass in Hand

You can celebrate without the pressure. Whether you’re pregnant, nursing, or in early motherhood, here’s how to politely pass on alcohol, keep the mood light, and still enjoy a beautiful drink—like a 0.0% ABV wine or sparkling tea—so your hands (and your heart) are full all evening.

Party Etiquette: Simple Scripts That Work

  • The friendly decline: “I’m sticking to alcohol-free tonight, thank you!”
  • The health-first angle: “I’m pregnant/nursing, so zero-proof for me—cheers!”
  • The swap: “I’ll take a sparkling 0.0%—do you have a non-alcoholic option?”
  • The host-helping tip: Arrive with your own bottle of 0.0% ABV wine and glasses. It’s a gift and a solution.

A graceful “no” lands best when your hands already hold something festive. Explore pregnancy-safe options here: Best Non-Alcoholic Pregnancy Wines.

Graceful, Glass-in-Hand Options (0.0% ABV)

Best Seller Non-Alcoholic White Wine Assortment (3 Bottles) – 0.0% ABV

Best Seller Non-Alcoholic White Wine Assortment (3 Bottles)

A bright, food-friendly trio with classic Chardonnay and Spanish whites—clean citrus, floral lift, and a refreshing finish. Ideal for mom-to-be toasts, baby showers, or “I’m driving” nights. 0.0% ABV.

Etiquette use: Bring this as a host gift and open it for everyone—no one feels left out.

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Copenhagen Sparkling Tea Trio – Non-Alcoholic 3-Bottle Set

Copenhagen Sparkling Tea Trio (3-Bottle 0.0 Set)

Elegant, tea-based bubbles (no alcohol) with layered botanicals—looks like champagne, tastes like something uniquely luxe. Gorgeous in flutes and perfect for midnight toasts.

Etiquette use: When someone offers champagne, top up your flute with sparkling tea—same sparkle, zero pressure.

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Best Seller Non-Alcoholic Rosé Assortment (3 Bottles) – 0.0% ABV

Best Seller Non-Alcoholic Rosé Assortment (3 Bottles)

Pale pink, berry-fresh, and endlessly photogenic. A trio designed for brunch tables, baby showers, and celebratory clinks. 0.0% ABV.

Etiquette use: If a host insists you “have something,” rosé in a flute reads celebratory and feels inclusive.

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Best Seller Non-Alcoholic Red Wine Assortment (3 Bottles) – 0.0% ABV

Best Seller Non-Alcoholic Red Wine Assortment (3 Bottles)

Velvety, fruit-forward reds from Spain and France—comfort-in-a-glass for dinners and cozy nights. 0.0% ABV.

Etiquette use: Pour into a stemmed glass at the table—no one needs to know it’s zero-proof.

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Which “No, thanks” Looks Most Like You?

Set Style / Notes Best Party Moment ABV Link
White Trio Citrus, floral, crisp finish Aperitif & light bites 0.0% Open
Copenhagen Sparkling Tea Champagne-like bubbles, botanical Toasts & midnight countdown 0.0% Open
Rosé Trio Pale pink, red berries, lively Brunch & baby-shower spreads 0.0% Open
Red Trio Velvety, fruit-forward, cozy Dinner & fireplace chats 0.0% Open

Keep It Classy, Keep It 0.0%

Browse pregnancy- and nursing-friendly bottles for parties, brunches, and quiet nights in.

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FAQs

How do I decline a drink without offending the host?

Keep it light and appreciative: “Everything looks amazing— I’m alcohol-free tonight. Could I have sparkling tea or a 0.0% pour?”

Are these options safe during pregnancy and nursing?

Yes—Wines for Mothers curates 0.0% ABV wines and sparkling teas designed for pregnancy and postpartum enjoyment. Always check individual product pages if you have dietary restrictions.

Do zero-proof wines taste like regular wine?

They’re made with traditional methods, then alcohol is removed to 0.0%. Expect familiar grape profiles, a gentler finish, and beautiful presentation.

What should I bring to a party so I’m not empty-handed?

Arrive with a chilled bottle of 0.0% sparkling tea or a white/rosé trio—offer to share. It doubles as a host gift and an easy conversation starter.

How do I serve zero-proof drinks so they feel festive?

Use flutes or stemware, add citrus peel or berries, and chill whites/sparkling for ~2 hours. Reds taste best slightly cool.